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Promoting My Book: A Day at the Bookstores

Yesterday was the first day I visited bookstores to introduce myself and ask for them to carry Under The Autumn Moon and schedule in store appearances.

I had my book, a bookmark and a promotional flyer to provide the decision-makers. I went to two bookstores. One asked if I’d been to their website and registered my book. “Yes.”

“Good. That’s the first step because we have more than one hundred authors apply every month.”

“That’s why I also wanted to stop by in person to introduce myself.” (hoping you’ll like me)

The second bookstore was more disappointing as they couldn’t find my book in their system. I googled it for them and showed it was in their system.

“Hmm. Well, let me give you the email for the person who can help you better than I can.”

On and on.

Writing a book is the easy part. Promoting it is rough.

This morning though, I was fine-tuning, probably for the seventeenth time, my next book. I felt very good about my edits and realized I was done. It is ready to send to my editor and publishing partner.

Then I felt tremendous sadness. The loss of not being able to sit every morning and listen to what my characters want me to write about their lives. We have completed that part.

Now I need to do all the things that have to be accomplished to share their story with the world.

Already the next lead character is whispering in my ear, “Can you please tell me story now?”

Finding Balance: The Writer’s Dilemma

I’m exhausted by noon most days, just like my cat, Panda, pictured above.

By noon most days, I’ve been on my bike to the nearby cafe, checked the news (briefly), posted on social media promoting Under The Autumn Moon and then settled in to work on my next book (which was actually drafted before I ever thought of Under The Autumn Moon).

This pattern actually worked very well with Autumn Moon and the book flowed easily.

It’s not flowing as well with this story and it’s because I feel I’m on the hamster wheel of marketing/promoting, marketing/promoting…

The energy is completely different. I’m not living with my characters, I’m watching them. I’m thinking how they will be attractive to readers rather than just capturing their story. I’ve apologized to these “people”multiple times. They have trusted me with their tale and I keep saying, “But what about if I do this and change that.”

Tori (my son’s beloved) told me I need to find a cabin in the woods and sequester myself. A sleep, eat, walk, write pattern sounds appealing, but I’m not confident I would stick to it. A strange doubt because I’m very goal oriented and driven to meet deadlines.

As I write this, I keep glancing at the clock as it ticks toward 3 PM and I think how I haven’t done any exercise today, just a couple of short walks which don’t count as exercise, just movement.

I’m still thrilled to have published a book now, along with some previous poems and short fiction.

I just want to cloak myself in my writer’s world again.

Trailblazers, still

The rock stars of the 60′, 70’s and beyond are still blazing new trails .

They defied expectations of what it means to be a “certain age” when they were teenagers exploding on the music scene, some still attending school, and, now in their 80’s.

They defied expectations of music creating new evolutions of sound. The Beatles, the Stones, Led Zeppelin, Patti Smith.

They defied expectations of fashion. The Beatles with the hair; Jagger with eye liner, scarves, paisley shirts; Jimmy Page with his dragon suit; Patti Smith with combat boots and t-shirts.

They defied expectations of lifestyle. Paul putting Linda in the band so they could keep the family together; blended families; shared loves; steady, devoted marriage with two children like Patti Smith and “Sonic” Smith.

They blended art into their world with album covers and stage performances.

They continue defying expectations.

Mick just appeared at the Oscars after touring with his new music last year.

Patti Smith just read her poetry at the Milan fashion week and is launching her already sold out year long tour.

So I ask myself, what trail and I blazing today?

Corner Cafe Stories: Driving 65 miles (one way) to Work

I’ve been whining about the work habits of te people at my new corner cafe where I go to write every morning.

It’s supposed to open at 7 AM. They never open the door before to accommodate us early arrivers like the old cafe did. In fact, several groups from the old place have abandoned this place because you can’t depend on a 7 AM opening.

I’ve started arriving at 7:15 or as late as 7:30 so I idon’thave to wait outside.

My whining stopped earlier this week.

It was fifteen degrees with snow flurries. Very unusual for my area. I didn’t arrive at the corner cafe until 8 AM. Eight! The day feels half over when I’m that late.

I pulled my hat down over my ears, zipped my coat up, grabbed my backpack with my laptop out of the back seat and tiptoed to the front door so as to not slip on the ice.

The door was locked. A paper with a handwritten note said, “We are opening late today due to inclement weather.”

I cussed out loud and headed back to my car when I heard the click of the lock and the manager shouted, “We are open now.”

“Are you sure?”

“Yes. Please come in. We have the fire going.”

I settled into “my” table next to the fireplace and started my routine of journaling, then writing on my novella.

A little while later I overheard another customer talking with the manager about the ice roads he and some of the other workers endured that morning.

“Yeah, we live in Sherman and none of the roads were cleared so it took us longer than usual.”

I stopped and looked at the corner café team behind the counter. Sherman, Texas is sixty-five miles one way from here.

This team of people who keep the coffee hot, bake the croissant I nibble on while writing and clean the restrooms spend at least an hour driving here and another hour driving home, five or six times a week for a job that pays little and probably offers no benefits to most.

Whining stops.

I am now grateful to them.

Becoming Led Zeppelin

If you’re a Zeppelin fan, this doc is essential viewing

If you “sometimes like” their music, you’ll have many “I didn’t know that” moments

If you think “Stairway to Heaven” is their one song, you’ll say, “I had NO IDEA”

If you like seeing creative masters working, you’ll be mesmerized.

Jimmy Page certainly was the jet fuel for this rocket but he knew how to pick his stellar crew: John Paul Jones, Robert Plant and John Bonham.