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My Unexpected Adventure at a Small Book Fair

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I thought I was signing up for a different book fair held on the same day in my community so I didn’t really know what I was getting into when I realized I was heading to a small town I’d never heard of to participate in my first ever book fair at a new bookstore I’d never heard of.

The place was overflowing with vendors so Leather and Bound Bookbar had to set us up in the adjacent cross fit gym. It was unheated and the side garage doors were open showcasing the vibrant sunset.

I relaxed into my new adventure and had a GREAT TIME!

The people were warm, kind, fun and genuine.

Venders supported one another with conversation, professional advice and manning one another’s table if needed.

And I sold several books.

What was so fulfilling about the sales was that my future readers wanted to talk with me about the book. Several have already started following me on socials, giving sweet shoutouts.

What started as an uncertain journey ended up a meaningful adventure.

@leatherandboundbookbar Fate, Texas

Corner Cafe Stories: Driving 65 miles (one way) to Work

I’ve been whining about the work habits of te people at my new corner cafe where I go to write every morning.

It’s supposed to open at 7 AM. They never open the door before to accommodate us early arrivers like the old cafe did. In fact, several groups from the old place have abandoned this place because you can’t depend on a 7 AM opening.

I’ve started arriving at 7:15 or as late as 7:30 so I idon’thave to wait outside.

My whining stopped earlier this week.

It was fifteen degrees with snow flurries. Very unusual for my area. I didn’t arrive at the corner cafe until 8 AM. Eight! The day feels half over when I’m that late.

I pulled my hat down over my ears, zipped my coat up, grabbed my backpack with my laptop out of the back seat and tiptoed to the front door so as to not slip on the ice.

The door was locked. A paper with a handwritten note said, “We are opening late today due to inclement weather.”

I cussed out loud and headed back to my car when I heard the click of the lock and the manager shouted, “We are open now.”

“Are you sure?”

“Yes. Please come in. We have the fire going.”

I settled into “my” table next to the fireplace and started my routine of journaling, then writing on my novella.

A little while later I overheard another customer talking with the manager about the ice roads he and some of the other workers endured that morning.

“Yeah, we live in Sherman and none of the roads were cleared so it took us longer than usual.”

I stopped and looked at the corner café team behind the counter. Sherman, Texas is sixty-five miles one way from here.

This team of people who keep the coffee hot, bake the croissant I nibble on while writing and clean the restrooms spend at least an hour driving here and another hour driving home, five or six times a week for a job that pays little and probably offers no benefits to most.

Whining stops.

I am now grateful to them.

Celebrating Love

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There’s something magical about being married to your best friend more than half your life.

It isn’t just the shared memories and experiences, it’s the liking, loving and respecting someone that cuts a groove of grounding, stability, trust and then the freedom to explore, change and become a fuller person in this world.

I know I’m very fortunate.

Do I Offer a Meal?

I have had to find a new cafe for my morning writing sessions as the old one permanently closed.

The new cafe, though just across the road from the old one, has two or three regulars who appear to be without permanent homes. Their clothes are frayed and their possessions are plastic bags. One is a woman who does have a bicycle and a black daypack (like me). She sits in the corner charging an old cell phone. I’ve never seen her with food or even a cup of coffee.

I’m new to this place and wonder the management’s protocol about paying for other guests’ food.

I want to just say to her one morning, “Can I buy you breakfast?”

How hard would that be? I’ve done it before in other places. Why hesitate here?

What do I fear? Engagement?

Maybe tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow.

Haiku for Harris

Kamala so strong

joyous and focused for us

we must elect her.

~~~

Nation not party

consequences most high

there’s only one choice.

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Let us turn the page

we all have more in common

Let’s build on that joy.

~~~

She wants solution

she wants to bring back our joy

focus on the good.