
Your sacred space is where you can find yourself over and over again.
-Joseph Campbell

Your sacred space is where you can find yourself over and over again.
-Joseph Campbell

“But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?”
-Albert Camus

Go all the way with it.
Do not back off.
For once, go all the goddamn way with what matters.
-Ernest Hemingway

Conditions are never perfect. “Someday” is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. If it’s important to you and you want to do it “eventually,” just do it and correct course along the way. -Timothy Ferriss

“Ever Onward to Victory”
Our final two days were back in Habana.
Impressions:
Yes, Cuba is poor in materials and even natural resources.
Tourism seems to be its most stable and successful business.
Outside Habana, the country is a beautiful island with hills, mountains, rivers, waterfalls, biospheres, chickens roaming everywhere and roosters waking you at 4:45 AM.
People outside walking, walking, walking, hitching a ride when they can, rarely a private car in sight.
Food extremely limited in variety but served with pride in generous portions.
Music.
Dance.
Heat. Humidity.
Kindness. Smiles.
Feeling, not like a tourist. No begging. No hassles.
Cubans love their country and see its flaws. They want a better standard of living but don’t want to be “too commercial like America.”
Cubans we met love Americans and think our two governments are “silly and we need to be friends.”
Cubans love Fidel and know he’s “holding on too much to the revolution.”
Cubans love Raoul and “believe will take us forward.”
They are proud of their schools and medicine.
Stay in a Casa Particulares with Cuban families. The hospitality is enriching to the soul.
Eat in a palador, not restaurants for the same reason.
Swim in the sea.
Hike in the hills.
Walk the tobacco farms.
Learn the revolucion, Bay of Pigs, and the embargo from their perspective.
Buy books written from their perspective.
Leave behind as much as you can: lotions, sunscreens, toilet paper, mosquito repellant, clothes, tips… the staff at the casas appreciate it greatly.
Listen as much as you can.
Ask questions.
Learn as much Spanish as you can and speak it.
Leave behind your kindness and compassion.
Take with you a better understanding that people are people.
We really want the same things.

Trinidad, Cuba.
The first time I’d ever heard of Santeria and seen the Casa Templo de Santeria: Yemaya was on the Departures TV series when Canadian travelers, Scott Wilson and Justin Lukach, walked into what appeared to be a regular storefront business on the cobbled streets of Trinidad.
What they found was a black “doll” dressed in all white sitting on a chair in the middle of an empty room. She represents the sea goddess, Yemaya.
It’s startling not just because of what it is, but the room has an energy and calmness at the same time. A very palatable feeling.
The high ceiling, white walls and blue fish and water paintings created a calm and cooler atmosphere contrasting heavily with the heat, humidity and ruggedly cobblestone streets of this UNESCO cited Spanish Colonial city located in the southern, center part of Cuba.
Our group had an appointment with the Temple Priest to learn about this religion that mixes traditions and beliefs brought by West African slaves and over years, mixed with Spanish Colonial Catholicism.
More than 70% of Cubans practice this religion. Many come to the Priest for advice about work, love, decisions to be made… the advice is typically a mix of prayer and rituals centered around plants, fruits, vegetables and animals.
The Temple is closed on Sunday because the Priests attend mass in the Catholic Church.
This is when I wish I had started my Spanish lessons earlier so that I could return and converse with the Priest. Through our translator I learned the Priests only wear white and the people I had seen in the streets in all white were either devotees of the religion or studying to become Priests. Unfortunately, my infant-level Spanish prevented me from further engagement.
Dady, our lead guide had given us all street maps of Trinidad because “the streets all have two names and are confusing because they follow no pattern.”
Boy, was she right.
You learn early that the center of this small community is at the higher elevation and our casa was “down the slope.” Streets and cobbled and challenging to walk. My husband and I were lost on our afternoon walk and about to head in the completely wrong direction when our son spotted us and put us on the right course.
Hot. Humid. A much poorer community than Cienfuegos the day before.
The peak tourist season had ended which I liked, but it made for empty streets and empty bars.
Our casa was “under construction” and more “rustic” than others. The family, however, was as warm and kind as we had learned to expect. We had lunch there and were served our first treat of Cuban helado. My husband had both chocolate and vanilla.
He and our son met up with others in the group that evening to find a hotel to watch the NBA playoffs.
I stayed in the room to write and read my book on Che I’d found in the town earlier that day.
The bus trip from Vinales, southwest of Habana, to Cienfuegos, near the center of the island on the southern shore, was going to take at least six hours of drive time. Fortunately, we had several stops and the day was of conversation about Cuban history (since Castro’s Revolution) and culture.
The highway was desolate. Miles pass without seeing any other motorized vehicle.
In the morning we watched a documentary on the bus about Fidel that was made by Americans. It featured many American notables such as former US Attorney General, Ramsey Clark, giving what seemed to be a balanced view of what the Revolucion was about. In a way, Fidel’s Revolucion felt like an early version of the “anti 1%” activity that occurred briefly in the States in 2014/15 and then was squelched. (Yes, Cubans call their President Fidel, not President Castro)
No question that former Cuban President Batista was a bad boy. It was said during his reign that the U.S. ambassador to Cuba had more power than Batista. Worse, however, was the mafia control of gambling, wealth and industry and the blatant disregard for the average Cuban.
My take away from the documentary was that the United States and Cuban governments allowed dogma and the threat of communism to blind them from clear decision-making in establishing diplomatic relations. Fidel spent much of his time in the United States after the revolution trying to raise money for his island country that, for the first time in its history, was actually being governed by Cubans instead of monarchs from other, primarily European, countries.
After stopping for lunch in a unusual property which seemed to also be a massive petting zoo with buffalo, peacocks and other assorted animals scattered throughout the property, we arrived at the Korimakao Cultural Center.
The Korimakao Cultural Center in Cinega de Zapata was established by Fidel as a Center where artists could develop their talents. These are young students who are not good enough for the university or for immediate employment in the cabarets or dance and performing troops, so the center is where they can hone their skills.
It is a modest campus of one-story white stucco buildings. There was no air conditioning in any of the buildings we visited and the dormitory restrooms were quite rustic and odorous.
The studios were rooms with open windows and plywood floors that were elevated on two by six beams to provide some measure of flexibility when jumping, especially for the dancers. The first performance presented to our small group was of two male dancers in a lovers quarrel complete with angst, anger and ultimate forgiveness and love.
The two young male dancers were quite earnest in their originally choreographed performance. Though homosexuality has been legal in Cuba since the 1970s, there is still much discrimination and bias against the LBGT Community. It seemed these Male dancers in their early 20s were trying to show how progressive their country was with their slightly homo-erotic performance.
We then watched a couple more performances from the full dance troupe and then listened to an acappella choir.
While there was definitely talent among these young students, it very much felt like a typical high school performance one would see in the United States. Their professional fate was probably no different than the thousands of young artists who pursue Broadway or Hollywood or other artistic venues. Some will make it, most will not.
More driving until we reached Playa Giron, better known as the Bay of Pigs. We stopped along the highway at a location designed just for people like us to swim in the sea or jump into a cenote.
The cenote was located deeper into the jungle down a winding path past the restrooms where we could change into our swimsuits. The cenote looked like a fetid, mosquito-infested black pool. We all opted for the sea instead.
There was no beach. Instead there was an abrupt drop into deep waters.
“No wonder we lost in the bay of pigs invasion,” said my husband looking at the deepwater.
“Yes, many Cubans have wondered why the Americans selected the southern part of the island to attempt an invasion by sea here. It’s just too deep and there is no easy way onto the land,” said our guide. “Our northern shores are beautiful sandy beaches that can easily be approached by sea.”
Hmmm…
The road between Playa Giron and Cienfuegos contained more billboards with Revolutionary images and slogans than we had seen in any other part of Cuba. Even former Venezuelan dictator, Hugo Chavez, has a notable presence exclaiming the virtues of revolution.(Hmmm, again, given the ruined economic state of Venezuela today)
Cienfuegos is known as the “Pearl of the south.”
It is the largest city we have been near since we left Habana. I immediately noticed how many people seemed to be in their teens and 20s. This is a much younger and more cosmopolitan community than anywhere we have been so far on the island.
Our Casa Particulare was the most luxurious so far. The property was pristine in it’s mosaic tile floors and decor. The second floor balcony was designed for guests to lounge and enjoy the sunset. Our rooms were decorated in bright colored silk sheets and curtains. Our towels were shaped into swans sitting on top of our beds.
With umbrella in hand, I asked our proprietress, “Lluvia?”. She shook her head no and so I took the umbrella back to my room before boarding the bus to go across town for dinner.
A monsoon struck the town just as we walked into the restaurant. The rain was so heavy that the drainage system began to back up flooding the restaurant. We continued to eat out od respect for the owners and staff who were working so hard to mop and sweep the rising tide out the kitchen door. We simply propped our feet upon the rails of our chairs to not get wet.
It made for fun conversation and great camaraderie with the restaurant staff.

First thoughts have tremendous energy. It is the way the mind first flashes on something-
Natalie Goldberg

Like moth to flame
I call my mother.
Copyright Betheny L. Reid
Remember I write fiction

The longest path is the one between you and your loved one after the call saying that he is dying.