Trailblazers, still

The rock stars of the 60′, 70’s and beyond are still blazing new trails .

They defied expectations of what it means to be a “certain age” when they were teenagers exploding on the music scene, some still attending school, and, now in their 80’s.

They defied expectations of music creating new evolutions of sound. The Beatles, the Stones, Led Zeppelin, Patti Smith.

They defied expectations of fashion. The Beatles with the hair; Jagger with eye liner, scarves, paisley shirts; Jimmy Page with his dragon suit; Patti Smith with combat boots and t-shirts.

They defied expectations of lifestyle. Paul putting Linda in the band so they could keep the family together; blended families; shared loves; steady, devoted marriage with two children like Patti Smith and “Sonic” Smith.

They blended art into their world with album covers and stage performances.

They continue defying expectations.

Mick just appeared at the Oscars after touring with his new music last year.

Patti Smith just read her poetry at the Milan fashion week and is launching her already sold out year long tour.

So I ask myself, what trail and I blazing today?

Corner Cafe Stories: Driving 65 miles (one way) to Work

I’ve been whining about the work habits of te people at my new corner cafe where I go to write every morning.

It’s supposed to open at 7 AM. They never open the door before to accommodate us early arrivers like the old cafe did. In fact, several groups from the old place have abandoned this place because you can’t depend on a 7 AM opening.

I’ve started arriving at 7:15 or as late as 7:30 so I idon’thave to wait outside.

My whining stopped earlier this week.

It was fifteen degrees with snow flurries. Very unusual for my area. I didn’t arrive at the corner cafe until 8 AM. Eight! The day feels half over when I’m that late.

I pulled my hat down over my ears, zipped my coat up, grabbed my backpack with my laptop out of the back seat and tiptoed to the front door so as to not slip on the ice.

The door was locked. A paper with a handwritten note said, “We are opening late today due to inclement weather.”

I cussed out loud and headed back to my car when I heard the click of the lock and the manager shouted, “We are open now.”

“Are you sure?”

“Yes. Please come in. We have the fire going.”

I settled into “my” table next to the fireplace and started my routine of journaling, then writing on my novella.

A little while later I overheard another customer talking with the manager about the ice roads he and some of the other workers endured that morning.

“Yeah, we live in Sherman and none of the roads were cleared so it took us longer than usual.”

I stopped and looked at the corner café team behind the counter. Sherman, Texas is sixty-five miles one way from here.

This team of people who keep the coffee hot, bake the croissant I nibble on while writing and clean the restrooms spend at least an hour driving here and another hour driving home, five or six times a week for a job that pays little and probably offers no benefits to most.

Whining stops.

I am now grateful to them.

Celebrating Love

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There’s something magical about being married to your best friend more than half your life.

It isn’t just the shared memories and experiences, it’s the liking, loving and respecting someone that cuts a groove of grounding, stability, trust and then the freedom to explore, change and become a fuller person in this world.

I know I’m very fortunate.

Becoming Led Zeppelin

If you’re a Zeppelin fan, this doc is essential viewing

If you “sometimes like” their music, you’ll have many “I didn’t know that” moments

If you think “Stairway to Heaven” is their one song, you’ll say, “I had NO IDEA”

If you like seeing creative masters working, you’ll be mesmerized.

Jimmy Page certainly was the jet fuel for this rocket but he knew how to pick his stellar crew: John Paul Jones, Robert Plant and John Bonham.