
sitting here alone
everyone else is solo
wanting to connect
The rock stars of the 60′, 70’s and beyond are still blazing new trails .
They defied expectations of what it means to be a “certain age” when they were teenagers exploding on the music scene, some still attending school, and, now in their 80’s.
They defied expectations of music creating new evolutions of sound. The Beatles, the Stones, Led Zeppelin, Patti Smith.
They defied expectations of fashion. The Beatles with the hair; Jagger with eye liner, scarves, paisley shirts; Jimmy Page with his dragon suit; Patti Smith with combat boots and t-shirts.
They defied expectations of lifestyle. Paul putting Linda in the band so they could keep the family together; blended families; shared loves; steady, devoted marriage with two children like Patti Smith and “Sonic” Smith.
They blended art into their world with album covers and stage performances.
They continue defying expectations.
Mick just appeared at the Oscars after touring with his new music last year.
Patti Smith just read her poetry at the Milan fashion week and is launching her already sold out year long tour.
So I ask myself, what trail and I blazing today?

I’ve been whining about the work habits of te people at my new corner cafe where I go to write every morning.
It’s supposed to open at 7 AM. They never open the door before to accommodate us early arrivers like the old cafe did. In fact, several groups from the old place have abandoned this place because you can’t depend on a 7 AM opening.
I’ve started arriving at 7:15 or as late as 7:30 so I idon’thave to wait outside.
My whining stopped earlier this week.
It was fifteen degrees with snow flurries. Very unusual for my area. I didn’t arrive at the corner cafe until 8 AM. Eight! The day feels half over when I’m that late.
I pulled my hat down over my ears, zipped my coat up, grabbed my backpack with my laptop out of the back seat and tiptoed to the front door so as to not slip on the ice.
The door was locked. A paper with a handwritten note said, “We are opening late today due to inclement weather.”
I cussed out loud and headed back to my car when I heard the click of the lock and the manager shouted, “We are open now.”
“Are you sure?”
“Yes. Please come in. We have the fire going.”
I settled into “my” table next to the fireplace and started my routine of journaling, then writing on my novella.
A little while later I overheard another customer talking with the manager about the ice roads he and some of the other workers endured that morning.
“Yeah, we live in Sherman and none of the roads were cleared so it took us longer than usual.”
I stopped and looked at the corner café team behind the counter. Sherman, Texas is sixty-five miles one way from here.
This team of people who keep the coffee hot, bake the croissant I nibble on while writing and clean the restrooms spend at least an hour driving here and another hour driving home, five or six times a week for a job that pays little and probably offers no benefits to most.
Whining stops.
I am now grateful to them.

If you’re a Zeppelin fan, this doc is essential viewing
If you “sometimes like” their music, you’ll have many “I didn’t know that” moments
If you think “Stairway to Heaven” is their one song, you’ll say, “I had NO IDEA”
If you like seeing creative masters working, you’ll be mesmerized.
Jimmy Page certainly was the jet fuel for this rocket but he knew how to pick his stellar crew: John Paul Jones, Robert Plant and John Bonham.

Looking at my Instagram feed before settling in to write this morning, I saw a post from someone’s “Auntie.” She posts videos of herself using household items to sing to 1970’s rock songs. Today, it’s Joe Walsh, “Life in the Fast Lane.” In less than three months she’s acquired 2+ million followers.
I’ve been sending queries for my novel for about three months. Agents want to know how many followers I have on social media. They don’t ask directly, but they ask for my sites.
So, this morning I’m “pitching for an increased profile” by submitting to contests for writers. I’ll still use social media and I’ll still write everyday.
I joke that “writing is the easy part. Publishing not so much.”
Onward.

When you see us sitting, day after day, huddled over our manuscripts, searching and submitting to agents and publishers, please cheer us on.
This morning someone walked by me and said, “You still haven’t found an agent for your book?!”
She meant well (I think)
I was a child the first time Led Zeppelin was huge, but I had an older brother who had older friends and so the “Gods of Rock Music” were frequently played on our stereos and Stairway To Heaven was always on the radio. Always. It was only very recently though that I stumbled across their quieter songs. I was searching on You Tube for nothing and “discovered” Thank you, That’s the Way and Going To California played live in concert, but only on acoustics.
So I jumped down the rabbit hole of research and learned Led Zeppelin has several quiet songs, beautiful songs. Each member of the band is considered an accomplished musician. Robert Plant was (is) not just a one of a kind banshee preening and wailing, he could also sing sweet, deeply moving ballads.
Then I learned about the group’s founder, Jimmy Page.
I’ll just focus on his professional life and how learning about how he grew and managed his career has provided me with lessons about being a writer.
#1 Childhood Obsessions Are Often Your True Path in Life
Jimmy Page found a guitar left behind in the house where he and his parents moved. It never left his side. He carried it everywhere. So much so, that teachers at school had to take it away from him. His parents though were supportive as long as he “kept his grades.”
I was a child that was given a diary when I was about eight and clutched it like it held the most precious treasures in the world, which it did- my writing. It had the clasp with a lock. It wasn’t big enough to capture all my daily writing and so I also carried a spiral notebook. I spent hours outside, sitting under a tree, writing. I declared at age 11 “I’m going to be a writer when I grow up.” (The fact that my mom threw ice water on that dream and it took me forever to return to it is another story for another day)
#2 Be Willing to Go Public With Your Gift.
Jimmy Page played skiffle guitar with a band on the BBC at age 13.
I published poems in the literary magazine and wrote stories for the newspaper in high school (we won state awards), but went secret with my writing for years. Lost confidence? Sold out to earning a degree so I could make money? Eventually, when asked what I “did for a living,” I would say , “If I could wave a magic wand, I’d be a published author.”
Finally, I started submitting and I started being published.
#3 Learn Your Craft
Jimmy Page was the top session guitarist in the UK by age 17. A session musician is a master at his/her instrument and is usually the artist you actually hear on records. For example, the musicians you actually hear on the Beach Boys records are a group of session musicians known as the Wrecking Crew.”
Page talks about how he learned to show up on time day after day, play what was wanted/needed, learned to read and write music, learned how to compose, engineer and produce. Fun Fact: It was the session violinist father of actor David McCallum (Man From Uncle, NCIS) who suggested to Page he try a bow with his guitar.
Me? I’ve taken writing courses to learn all aspects of the craft of writing itself AND the publishing industry (just as important).
#4 Take Risks
Jimmy Page quit being a well paid, steady working session musician when he was asked to play the equivalent of MUZAK. He joined the Yardbirds for a while and then, when they broke up, created what became Led Zeppelin.
This is where I still struggle. I haven’t completely ditched my comfy “day job,” but I’m writing and submitting more than I’m not. (Great Spirit, spur me on)
#5 Do Three Versions Then Pick the Best
Page is known for extraordinary guitar solos both in recordings and , especially, live. He has said that he would record his solos three times then pick the best one for the albums.
I see the benefit in having multiple drafts of my stories, but I listen to too many (unpublished) writers talk about how many drafts they have of their story. For some, it’s been going on for years with the same story. At some point, we have to pick the best one and go with it.
#6 Find a Partner to Run the Business Side
Jimmy Page had Peter Grant. The deal was that the band focus on the music and Grant would handle everything else. It worked. They became one of the biggest (if not the biggest) rock bands of all time. Still hugely popular.
Writers need a Literary agent. We just do. We need to write and they need to find our publishers and advocate for us.
#7 Stay in Charge of The Creative Side
Jimmy Page produced all Led Zeppelin’s music and still curates the band.
Writers need to make sure the publishing process keeps you with input on book design, ownership of rights, understand distribution, reprints, etc. While you want to focus on the writing and your Literary Agent should handle the heavy side of the business, pay attention– manage your creation.
Time now to listen to music. Perhaps some Led Zeppelin, yes?